How many times have you looked at them and thought, "How come you can't just act normal?". "Why is it so hard for you to be nice?" "What did I do to deserve this mean treatment from you?" - Well, chances are if you're following me, you have a very emotionally wired personality. You're the kind, caring, giving, forgiving, loving, do anything for anyone, fix it, supporter, peacekeeper, & conflict avoider. You put most above yourself on the list of priorities, and you sacrifice yourself to the needs of others. Am I Right?
Therefore when you look at them and think, "How come you can't act normal?" it is because they are not acting like you. You & I only know how to see the world through our emotionally wired eyes, so their behavior & treatment of you seems abnormal because we would never do or say the things they do.
I will say that seeing the world through the eyes of the toxic personality was the one key thing that freed me from it. I will also say that after years of teaching in this area, I know the toxic personality better than they know themselves. Wouldn't it be extremely helpful if you could see it too? Get behind their thoughts, intense words, inconsistent actions, and motivation behind their behavior and you too will find yourself saying, "You've Got to Be Kidding Me This Is So Easy!".
Knowing your world from a new perspective, which is theirs, will change your life. It will give you the insight to what is actually happening in your relationship as well as empower you to make those difficult decisions.
This is the information that I did not have when I was going through it, and truth is, you need this information whether your goal is to stay in the relationship or to break free from it. Remember, your personality is what I described above which means, you will value having this information as you grow into the future relationships in your life. This is an intense 3 hour session and will bring more information than you will be prepared for.
1) Make sure you are in a place where you will have no interruptions. (kids, pets, spouses, phone calls etc.)
2) You will need a notebook and I suggest a set of colored pens or markers. Yes this is a class and you will be taking notes.
3) It is a push for me to get through all of the information in the time allowed so know that you are coming to a "class" type setting & will not be talking too much about your personal situation. This is not the place to get your questions answered, get advice or make a big decision. This is the foundation that will then lead to the next step which includes all those things.
4) The call will be on zoom as video has proven to be most effective for this material. You will receive the link for the call via email after your session time is scheduled.
5) A 3 hour time slot can be difficult to coordinate. If the times available do not work for you please go ahead and schedule in the next available time on my calendar, then reach out to me via email and we will find a time that works for both of us.
6) YES! you may have snacks and I will give you potty breaks. This is intended to be a relaxed atmosphere however, material may be triggering and cause some overwhelm. If that is the case we will decide how to proceed to complete & cover remaining information.
7)You will leave this session with new tools to observe, understand, and implement immediately as you move forward in your journey.
My hope is that you too, will find as much value in this information as I did and make the changes that are best for you.
I am looking forward to our time together,
Dr Heidi
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